Here's my 2 pence worth for this topic.
It is important to go by what the Bible teaches too. You have to remember that it is still of God in a way that he wants it to be. It does not teach 10 commandments to men and 10 commandments to women, or 8 commandments to good looking people and 3 commands to ugly people. It's 10 commandments that need to be lived by by everybody, equally with no bypass.
Hebrews 13:4 - Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
It is NOT saying - Let marriage be held in honor among select few, and let the married bed be undefiled on 39% of my people, for I God will judge the sexually imoral and adulerous to who I choose!
Genesis 9:7 - And you, be fruitful and multiply, teem on the earth and multiply in it.
It is NOT saying - And you, be fruitful and multiply, but women who're poor and weak, you only multiply when demanded!
1 Corinthians 7:2 - But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
It is not saying - But because of the temptation women have with sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each women must not.
I hope I got my point across lol - All I'm trying to say is, what we are taught from God is that we are all unique, and should be treated equally. But we are also given our own responsibilities, our own tasks... How so? Well he gave his own begotton son the task of dying for our sins! He gave all the apostles and prophets their own unique tasks, Mary also had a task which played a huge part in our salvation! We must study the scriptures, treat everybody like Jesus would, forgive 70 and try to be who God asks YOU to be.