Dillon

Members
  • Posts

    107
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Recent Profile Visitors

The recent visitors block is disabled and is not being shown to other users.

Dillon's Achievements

  1. Oh no, not at all. I took a mandatory break from the board for a minute. I think all my loving comments were just too much for some to handle.
  2. All I can say is you must be a very, very good looking woman.
  3. In my experience when a woman that married young and has only been with one man their entire life gets a little older and starts talking about wanting to be bad it many times involves the hottest guy at the bar and a cheap motel.
  4. ahhh yeah, I hear more women using the word "guys" when describing their girl friends than I do men. "you guys are sweet", "you guys shouldnt have" "you guys" have you ever heard a female talk this way? I have many many times.
  5. Ha,, this is the new and improved Dillon. I realized I wasnt being fair and upsetting everyone, women mostly, with my remarks judging a few women's actions on all women, it wasnt fair. I dont do that in my everyday life so I dont want to do it here. I think there are some good LDS women in here like yourself and I can appreciate that and I do, nothing better than a loyal, humble, faithful LDS woman, the world needs more of you guys.
  6. Ok I can go with that, but is chemistry something a couple can work on? I suppose a couple could rekindle passion that was once there and that could bring back chemistry between the two. So maybe I guess, I dont know.
  7. I apologize, you said came over several times or something to that affect and one make out session. You want no other advice thats great but I will say this, you said " But I felt passion and chemistry, something I haven't felt with my husband for almost our entire marriage" How is your husband supposed to take that? If my wife told me that it would probably sting a minute. I would have to end the marriage i suppose , dont know how i could trust her after that, not to mention the hurt it would cause. If a woman doesn't have chemistry and passion with the person she is with, she is gona find it some place else, same with a man.
  8. Thank you anatess, lets just say I had a bad run for awhile. But this I love. Be careful about being blunt and honest and direct. Some dont take it very well, especially if they think you are attacking or judging. Some here want to confess some wrong doings and then want you to pat them on the back and tell them its ok and they did nothing wrong and your husband should understand and forgive you, this after you had several "passionate petting and make out sessions" with another man, no biggie right? and this after you find excuses to justify your lack of passion for your husband.
  9. I've had a woman cheat on me and leave and then find out I was now dating another woman so she comes to my house upset and fighting mad that I was dating another woman. I've had a woman leave and then try to come back and reconcile, but she found out I had dated a few times so she left for good, said she could not be with me now. Well come to find out this woman had slept with at least 2 men and actually moved one in with her for a short time.
  10. yep, the wife would be livid if she found out he did that. A make out session is many times seen as not a big deal if you were the one doing the making out, but try the other side of it and see how it feels.
  11. I wonder if I could chime in, not judging of course. Can your husband help the fact that you dont feel attractive around him? Is this his fault? Sounds like to me he does everything he can to make you feel special. Is it because of the porn? Has your resentment killed the passion?
  12. Marriage and Divorce: A Rigged Game for Men, But Also Ultimately Bad for Women and Children In my opinion, the primary reason women initiate divorces in 70% of divorces cases is because most women stand to gain far more than they have to lose if they choose to divorce. “Sorry, sweetie. I’m bored and you don’t meet my insatiable needs for attention and I’m not in love with you, in fact, I don’t know if I ever was in love with you, so it’s over. Except for supporting me with the money you work hard to earn. I still want access to that. And your retirement. What do you mean it’s ironic that I complained about how much time you spent at work while we were married to support our family because I refused to work, but still expect you to support me after the divorce with money from your job that I complained about incessantly? I sacrificed my career for you. True, I never wanted to work, but I would have had a career if you didn’t me marry me. Get it?” This figure would probably be closer to 50% if men were able to leave dissatisfying and/or abusive marriages without the threat of being destroyed by the family court system and losing their assets and children just as most women are able to do when they initiate divorce. Would women be filing for divorce as much if there were consequences? For instance, if custody was automatically 50/50 and spousal support lasted only as long as her state’s unemployment benefits? Probably not. Even though women initiate approximately 70% of divorces, men are frequently ordered to pay their ex-wives legal costs. So, in addition to potentially losing their assets, their homes and their children, men are also expected to pay for the privilege of being emotionally and financially eviscerated by their ex-wives. Not only do women initiate 70% of divorces, women are awarded primary custody in 82.6% of custody cases and this figure has remained largely unchanged since the 1994 U.S. Census. While U.S. Census statistics don’t provide information on how these women obtain custody, for example, the father fought for custody, but ran out of funds and/or was victimized by a benighted family court judge, we do know the following statistics about children who do not have an active father in their lives. The New Hampshire Commission on the Status of Men (2006) concluded that, “paternity fraud is a growing concern for men and children everywhere. It can spawn considerable grief for the men who may or may not be emotionally attached to a child they later discover was fathered by another; and possibly unsettling for children who may discover the false nature of their paternity.” What about brave men who marry a second time? Men can have their new spouses’ income held against them and used to extort more child and spousal support to their ex-wives. For instance, in Massachusetts, judges frequently include a second spouse’s income as part of “total household income” and use that figure to determine whether the payor, usually a man, has enough income to keep paying spousal support. This is nothing more than a “backhanded way of tapping into a second spouse’s income” to pay for the ex who believes she shouldn’t have to work because she was once married to her ex once upon a time or wants to maintain that magical and totally unrealistic “marital standard of living.” However, if the ex-wife remarries, her new spouse is under no legal obligation to financially support his stepchildren. The court’s rationale? Hey, they’re not his children and, therefore, not his responsibility. Yet, it is the new wife’s responsibility to give a portion of her salary to her husband’s ex-wife and children. In many states, long after a divorce has been settled, ex-wives can come after their ex-husbands to shake down their retirement plans — even after they received a portion of the man’s retirement during the divorce settlement! In factoring a man’s ability to pay spousal support after retirement, judges can count the income from retirement accounts, including those already divided in half during the original divorce proceedings. This essentially allows some ex-wives to “double dip” into their exes’ retirement savings. Here’s another statistic: Divorced and separated men are two and a half times more likely to commit suicide than married men. Divorce, however, doesn’t seem to lead more women to commit suicide. Separated and divorced male suicides outnumber their female counterparts by 4 to 1.
  13. Most people will marry for money, expect to be divorced, says Wall Street Journal Among the women in their twenties who said they would marry for money, 71% said they expected to get divorced -- the highest of any demographic. Only 27% of men in their 40s expect expected to divorce.
  14. My comment was directed to the more well off and wealthy men, the ones that get these hot wives that stick around for about 2 years and then get millions in a settlement. I was not talking about the average Joe that gives his wife 50 bucks a week in child support. I was talking about the women that marry for money.